10 Ways To Bounce Back From Failure In Life
With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose – Wayne Dyer
We all experience failure at some point in our lives. It can be devastating, but it’s important to remember that failure is not the end of the world. There are ways to bounce back from failure and pick yourself up again. Here are 10 of them.
1) With a deep breath, I stopped complaining and blaming others for everything that was happening around me.
I realized there were two things wrong with this mentality: one-it doesn’t matter what anyone else does; two–you can’t control them! So why spend energy going back over old ground or looking at the world through rose colored glasses when we all know how life often treats us?
2) Watching the inspirational movies gave me courage to face my fears. I was afraid that not knowing what will happen next might be too much for me, but watching these films made it easier and more exciting!
Read: The 20 Most Inspirational Movies of All Time
3)The first thing I do when the sun starts rising is to write ten things that will make my day better. Sometimes, though on those days where there are other obligations or distractions from starting this process early in anticipation for what’s ahead then before bed at night instead of during waking hours; it feels good just looking back over everything written down so far! I find myself rereading these daily blessings because they remind me how much has happened within 24 hours which gives perspective about where we’re headed as human beings here below–but also why you should always try your hardest not only today.
4)I decided that I would always smile and deal with whatever came up no matter what happened at work, home, family, etc. I am not one to let things get me down. I decided that, even if it is the busiest of days and everything seems like its going against you; no matter what happens in your personal life or at work-you can always come back with an open mind!
5)When I realized that no one was going to believe in me, it felt as if a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I got rid of all the people who didn’t think big or try new things–and now they’re just gone! With a clear mind and strong will, I was able to cut the ties that bound me. I let go of those who did not believe in my potential or accept responsibility for their own actions – it’s about time you start protecting yourself from these people!
6) When I took the picture every day for 21 days, it gave me courage to feel proud of myself. At first this was hard but then became part of my routine where everyday there would be something new in front or me that made us smile back at each other – because during all these years we were always missing out on seeing how beautiful and amazing YOU really ARE! This second challenge has also encouraged me even more than before; maybe due some good things coming up soon? In any case…I hope everyone will take time today (or tomorrow)
7) When I felt like giving up, my thoughts immediately turned to all the people who have loved and supported me through thick and thin. It made it clear that this is one more chance for which they deserve something back; so now whenever there’s a tough moment or any other doubt in our ability to succeed at anything else but staying strong together-I think about how much better life will be when we start fighting side by Side with each Other instead!
8)I started listening to people who are wiser and more experienced than me. They had gone through their own challenges in life, so it made sense that they could help teach the way forward for myself as well .I realized no matter how bad my situation is there’s always somebody else going through something . Listening to the stories of those who have gone before me has helped put my current struggles in perspective. Though it may be difficult, there is always someone else worse off than I am. My challenge again was not feeling sorry for myself but instead finding ways of getting out of it or accepting the fact that this will make me a much stronger person in the end.
9) When I learned how to love myself unconditionally, even if others can’t do so or haven’t tried. It all started with learning that there were things about me-the ugly ones-and then finally accepting them for what they are without any judgement whatsoever .The moment you realize your worthiness in spite of those perceived weaknesses is when everything changes for the better; it begins by teaching us not only accept our flaws but also celebrate who we really want/need
10)When I finally stopped comparing my life to others, it was like a weight had been lifted from me. The feeling is incredible and all because of one decision-to live for myself instead!
We all experience failure at some point in our lives. The key is to learn from those failures and bounce back stronger than ever. What have you done in the past that has helped you overcome failure? Let us know in the comments below.