Lesser Truths That Hits Really Hard

Let’s be honest, life can be a real kick in the pants sometimes.

We’re constantly bombarded with motivational quotes, self-help books, and toxic positivity telling us to keep our chins up and power through.

But what if, just for a moment, we embraced some of the lesser truths that hit really hard?

Buckle up!

Here is my brutally honest look at the realities of life that most people prefer to ignore.

Money Can Actually Buy Happiness

We’ve all heard the saying “money can’t buy happiness,” but let’s be real, that’s a load of crap. Of course, money can buy happiness – at least up to a certain point.

When you have enough money to cover your basic needs (food, shelter, and a yearly trip to Bora Bora), your stress levels tend to decrease, and your overall life satisfaction increases.

However, once you reach a certain level of wealth (let’s say, a cool million or two), the correlation between money and happiness starts to level off. That’s when other factors, like relationships, purpose, and personal growth, become more important for overall well-being.

Sometimes Shortcuts Are the Only Way

We’re constantly told that hard work and perseverance are the keys to success, but let’s be honest – sometimes, you need to take a shortcut or two.

Life is short, and not every battle is worth fighting.

If you can find a more efficient way to achieve your goals without compromising your integrity, why not take it?

Of course, I am not advocating for cutting corners or taking the easy way out at every opportunity. But sometimes, a well-placed shortcut can save you time, energy, and a whole lot of unnecessary stress.

Hard Work and Consistency Will Not Always Succeed

Speaking of hard work, let’s address the elephant in the room: hard work and consistency don’t always lead to success.

We’ve all known that one person who works their butt off, puts in countless hours, and still doesn’t seem to get ahead.

It’s a harsh reality, but the truth is that success is often a combination of hard work, luck, and timing.

That’s not to say that hard work and consistency are meaningless – they’re still incredibly important factors. But sometimes, no matter how hard you try, external factors beyond your control can derail even the most diligent efforts.

You Don’t Really Have Any Friends

Ouch, this one stings a little. But let’s be honest, how many people in your life would truly be there for you no matter what?

We’re not talking about the people you grab drinks with every now and then or the coworkers you occasionally vent to. We’re talking about real, ride-or-die friends who would drop everything to help you out of a jam.

The sad truth is that most of us only have a handful of people (if that) who fit that description. And even those relationships can be fragile, subject to change as life circumstances shift.

It’s a sobering reminder that true, unconditional friendship is rare and precious.

Nobody Knows What They Want to Be at Any Point in Their Life

Remember when you were a kid, and adults would ask you what you wanted to be when you grew up? Maybe you had a clear vision – a doctor, an astronaut, or a professional dolphin trainer. But as you’ve gotten older, that certainty has likely faded.

The truth is, most of us have no idea what we want to be or do with our lives at any given point. Our interests, passions, and goals are constantly evolving, and that’s okay.

Life is a journey of self-discovery, and it’s unrealistic to expect to have it all figured out from the get-go.

Your Existence Doesn’t Really Matter

This one is a tough pill to swallow, but hear me out. In the grand, cosmic scheme of things, your existence doesn’t really matter. Sure, you’re important to the people in your life, and you might even make a small impact on the world around you.

But in the vast, infinite universe, you’re a tiny speck of dust – a blip in the cosmic timeline.

Now, before you spiral into an existential crisis, let me clarify: this doesn’t mean your life is meaningless or that you shouldn’t strive to make a difference. It simply means that you shouldn’t put too much pressure on yourself to be something earth-shattering or world-changing.

Just focus on living a good life, being kind to others, and finding your own personal fulfillment.

You Will Not Have a Legacy or Even Be Remembered

Building on the previous point, the likelihood of you leaving a lasting legacy or being remembered for generations to come is slim to none.

Unless you’re a historical figure, a groundbreaking scientist, or a celebrity of epic proportions, your name and accomplishments will eventually fade into obscurity.

Again, this isn’t meant to be depressing – it’s just a reality check. Instead of obsessing over your legacy, focus on living a life that brings you joy and fulfillment in the present moment.

After all, that’s what truly matters in the end.

We Have Near Zero Control Over What Happens to Us

No matter how much we plan, prepare, and try to control every aspect of our lives, the truth is that we have very little control over what actually happens to us.

Unexpected events, accidents, illnesses, and other curveballs can throw even the most meticulous plans into disarray.

While this lack of control can be unsettling, it’s also a reminder to embrace the present moment and roll with the punches.

Worrying about things beyond your control is a waste of energy – instead, focus on how you respond to the challenges life throws your way.

The World Will Not Be Fair to You

Life isn’t fair – it’s a harsh truth we all have to come to terms with eventually.

You could be the hardest worker, the most talented individual, or the kindest soul, and bad things will still happen to you. The world doesn’t owe you anything, and it certainly doesn’t play by a set of fair and equitable rules.

While this realization can be disheartening, it’s also liberating in a way.

Once you accept that life isn’t fair, you can let go of the expectation that everything should be handed to you on a silver platter. Instead, you can focus on making the most of the hand you’re dealt and finding joy and fulfillment in unexpected places.

Everything in Life, You Will Only Get to Do a Finite Number of Times

This one is a real gut-punch, but it’s a truth we all have to face: everything in life, no matter how enjoyable or seemingly infinite, will come to an end.

That delicious meal you love? You’ll only get to eat it a finite number of times. That favorite book you can’t get enough of? You’ll only get to read it a finite number of times. Even the relationships and experiences that bring you joy will eventually fade or change.

The key is to savor and appreciate every moment, every experience, and every relationship while you have it. Don’t take anything for granted, and make the most of every opportunity that comes your way – because nothing lasts forever.

Whew, that was a lot of harsh realities to take in, but embracing these lesser truths is an essential part of personal growth and self-awareness. By acknowledging the brutal facts of life, we can let go of unrealistic expectations, appreciate the present moment, and find fulfillment in the things that truly matter.

But let’s not end on a completely somber note – there’s still room for humor and levity in the face of these harsh truths.

After all, what’s the point of living if you can’t have a good laugh every now and then?

So, let’s raise a glass to the lesser truths that hit really hard – may they serve as a reminder to live life to the fullest, embrace the unpredictable, and never take ourselves too seriously.

Because at the end of the day, we’re all just tiny specks of cosmic dust trying to make the most of this wild ride called life.