Can You Win Without Talent or Luck? Yes, You Can! (Part 2)

Here we go again! In the first part of this epic, I covered 10 powerful strategies that prove you can achieve incredible success without relying on innate talent or blind luck. From working your butt off to cultivating grit, we established the foundational mindsets and actions of the untalented winner.

Team Building Activities Rarely (Never!) Succeed. Why?

As a survivor of multiple team-building events, I feel it is perhaps time to shed some much-needed light on this topic. These supposedly morale-boosting endeavors are the bane of every professional’s existence, yet companies (and team leaders with too much time on their hands) continue to force them upon

Can You Win Without Talent or Luck? Yes, You Can! (Part 1)

We’ve all heard the stories of overnight successes and seemingly talentless individuals who struck gold through sheer luck. From the friend whose silly app idea turned into a multi-million dollar business, to the neighbor who won the lottery jackpot despite never buying tickets before. It’s easy to look

Brake Lights and Firewall Fights - Lessons from the Mumbai Traffic

If you’ve ever found yourself caught in the perpetual gridlock that is Mumbai traffic, you know the soul-crushing feeling of utter helplessness. The snarling engines, blaring horns, and a seemingly infinite stretch of unmoving vehicles can drive even the most Zen individuals to the brink of madness. Believe me,

The Incredible Power of NO

Let’s get real for a second. Are you tired of being everyone’s doormat? Do you constantly find yourself overcommitted, overwhelmed, and on the verge of burnout? If your excessive people-pleasing has left you depleted and resentful, it’s time for a wake-up call: You need to embrace the

Tom & Jerry. And Risk Management.

Let’s face it, folks. The world of information security can get pretty dry sometimes. Phishing scams, zero-day exploits, vulnerability assessments – it’s enough to put anyone to sleep. But what if I told you there was a wealth of knowledge hidden within the chaotic world of everyone’s favorite

A Little Knowledge Can Be A Dangerous Thing (especially if it is about YOU!)

Ah, self-knowledge. The elusive butterfly every soul chases, the holy grail of personal growth. But have you ever stopped to consider that, like any powerful tool, a little knowledge about yourself can be just as dangerous as none at all? Buckle up, friend, because we’re about to embark on

You Are Not a Leader. And that is Okay.

Leadership. It’s a word tossed around like confetti at a corporate event. Everyone wants to be a leader, climb the ladder, leave their mark. But amidst the motivational quotes and leadership seminars, a crucial truth gets veiled. Leadership isn’t sunshine and rainbows. It’s a double-edged sword, and

Death: The Uninvited Dinner Guest We All RSVP To (But No One's Happy About)

Let’s face it, folks, death isn’t exactly the life of the party. It’s the uninvited guest that crashes every celebration, the awkward silence in the conversation of existence, the elephant in the room so big it’s started breeding elephants. But here’s the thing: ignoring it

Knowing When Your Input Matters Most

The company pays you for your expertise; you’re doing a disservice to yourself and the company by staying quiet. Now, balancing that with silence is golden as well. If you have thoughts to add to the discussion, do it. Don’t talk, just to talk. Also, if any of

Acceptance Is Your Weakness

In the quest for inner peace and harmony, you’ve likely been told time and again about the power of acceptance. It’s painted as the ultimate virtue, the key to unlocking a serene and contented life. But have you ever paused to consider if this constant push towards acceptance

For Those Who Go Unnoticed At Work

Ever feel like you’re in a professional abyss, working hard but somehow still invisible? Like you’re grinding daily, but the spotlight never quite finds its way to you? Buckle up because we’re about to embark on a journey to change your game. I get it; you’re

Why Does Life Throw Us These Curveballs

Ever find yourself pondering the cosmic forces that led you to this tumultuous journey called life? The kind that makes you question your choices, your sanity, and perhaps the very fabric of the universe? It’s a universal head-scratcher, right? So, my fellow wanderers in this vast cosmic circus, let’

Why Your Goals Need a Reality Check

Tired of the same old New Year’s resolutions that fizzle out faster than a sparkler on a rainy day? You’re not alone. Every professional who secretly feels the itch to kickstart a new goal knows the drill. The rookie thinks they can conquer the world in 10 minutes,

Seven Uncharted Paths to Gain Control of Your Life

Ever find yourself glancing at successful people, wondering, “What’s their secret sauce for a life in control?” Are you missing out on life’s grandeur amid the chaotic busyness? Join the club; you’re not alone in this wild rollercoaster of emotions. Picture this: you’re navigating the daily

Mastering the Game of Power: A Review of "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene

When you show yourself to the world and display your talents, you naturally stir all kinds of resentment, envy, and other manifestations of insecurity. You cannot spend your life worrying about the petty feelings of others. Robert Greene, The 48 Laws of Power Do you know that certain books are

The Ripple Effect of Thought

Have you ever felt your life is on repeat? That each day is a mere replay of the previous one, like a broken record caught in an endless loop? If you’re nodding your head right now, you’re not alone. You belong to the tribe that secretly feels trapped

10 Reasons Why People Don’t Change (And Probably You Won’t Too)

“Why change? It’s like updating your software – sure, there might be cool features, but who needs them when you’re already a vintage, classic edition of ‘Why Fix It If It Ain’t Broke?’ Have you heard of the howling dog story? It goes like this: Having recently moved

From Paychecks to Punchlines

Ever experienced that bewildering sensation where your bank account seems to have taken up residence in the Bermuda Triangle of finance? If money had a voice, mine would casually whisper, “Adieu!” And if you’re a high-earning professional silently nodding, pondering if your money decided to embark on a permanent

Commuting to Work or Commuting to Change the World: A (Serious!) Take on Future of Work Life

Yeah, working is great…but have you tried traveling?  I thought I wanted a career. Turns out I just want a paycheck to buy plane tickets. I wish that road trips could pay my bills. The alarm clock screams, shattering the silence of dawn. It’s a sound that resonates

Why Some Soar While Others Stumble

Ever felt like you’re stuck in the slow lane of life, watching others cruise effortlessly toward their dreams? Maybe you’re grappling with ambition, wrestling with the universe for a break, and wondering why some people seem to snag their goals like low-hanging fruit while you’re stuck with

It Is Normal To Feel Worse Before You Feel Better

In the intricate tapestry of human emotions, there exists a paradoxical phenomenon that many of us grapple with at some point in our lives: the unsettling experience of feeling worse before getting better. It’s a topic often veiled in ambiguity, yet profoundly resonant in the human experience. One of

What If Peace Isn't Our Natural State

In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, we often yearn for that elusive state of tranquility – the pursuit of peace is a melody that resonates with the human spirit. It’s the quietude we seek after a long day’s work, the serenity of a quiet morning, or

My Experiments to Inner Peace

So, you want to find inner peace? Well, that’s like trying to catch a greased pig at a county fair – slippery, challenging, and sometimes downright impossible. We live in a world packed with more distractions than a toddler in a room full of toys, stress that’s thicker than

Breaking Free from the Chains of Expectations

In the complex tapestry of our lives, we often find ourselves entangled in a web of “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts.” These mental constructs dictate that we should toil ceaselessly, never succumb to procrastination, maintain an unwavering kindness, and keep our anger at bay. These directives, while often well-intentioned, stem from