Random Thoughts: Part 3

I’m so proud of myself when I look back at everything I’ve had to go through. I claim that I have only just begun, and there is still a long way to go.

I’m not implying that you shouldn’t have difficult times in life; instead, I believe that you won’t be burdened with a load to carry unless there is a desire inside or an opportunity to learn from it.

I feel fortunate, yet I still do. However, there was no moment when I was told to have a heart-to-heart conversation about various issues and how to handle life. The reality is that life does not come with a handbook. We must all go through it to learn how it functioned and why it worked

The truth is that expecting someone to provide you with a precise blueprint of life and how they have figured it out is a fallacy. Someone can’t assist you to the point where you don’t have to do anything yourself. It’s an easy method

The reality is that life is telling us – How would you figure out how to get out of this maze? You’re just meat in a suit if there’s no way.

Many of you will undoubtedly disagree with these standards and shortcuts. After all, they are the rules of someone who has learned everything independently. I can tell you that they have worked for me thus far.

1. Rejection can be a tough pill to swallow. Whether it’s a job you didn’t get, or a date that didn’t go as planned, it’s easy to see rejection as a personal failure. However, it’s important to remember that rejection is often simply a matter of redirection.
2. That’s something I can assure you of with absolute confidence: it doesn’t give you the right to form an opinion on anyone alive or dead simply because you haven’t seen it. Remind yourself that the world is only interested in your thoughts if they are useful.
3. Once you know who you are, you’ll be able to understand other people’s intentions. Because we are all alike – the only distinction is what we observe from the outside.
4. There’s a huge difference between being attentive and hearing what others are saying.
5. It’s a good idea to acknowledge the problem someone is facing before offering an opinion. Someone may come to offer you advice on how to deal with your anger, but they won’t help you make improvements unless they are aware of the circumstances that prompted it.
6. Resilience isn’t hereditary; it’s manufactured. It must be prepared for. Resilience isn’t a thing you’re born with; it’s something that has to be built up.
7. You are different from a monkey because of your language of behavior. How you act is crucial.
8. Don’t talk about patience; demonstrate it.
9. Not everyone you meet or read about or know has good habits to follow or model, but good habits are follow-able. Pick the best habits to follow.
10. There’s no spirituality in life without the tinge of death. Life is simply a game of entertainment between our birth and death.
11. We grumble about the weather being terrible, or that it’s raining.  It is, after all, a blessing for farmers whose crops are dying. Someone somewhere is going to be thankful for this situation.
12. Your face is exposed, yet your worries will tell a different tale.
13. As what you believe will occur, so it will. What you eat affects not only your body but also your mind and spirit.
14. We are all linked. Things that happen to others may also happen to us. Everyone manages their problems in the most effective way possible, with the best information they have.
15. Many people have gone through comparable situations, or ones that were much more difficult than yours. Your problem isn’t unique; others have had the same difficulties. If they’ve succeeded in resolving those issues, you can too.
16. It’s possible that someone else is capturing your last photograph right now. Keep in mind to smile.
17. Learn how to respond to questions while under pressure and on stage. If you believe that it’s simple, the art of dealing with pressure is something you can teach.
18. Even if you have a natural gift for speaking without writing down notes, remember that not only what to say but also how to present oneself while speaking is important.
19. Sorrow, like seeds, takes time to grow. It might take a minute to grasp the pain and years to accept the baggage.
20. Your idea is nothing more than a concept until it reaches the implementation stage, where it begins to matter.
21. Make a daily schedule on paper, then check to see if you’re following it. If you’re not following your plan, it’s because you don’t yet know what your priorities should be.
22. If you want to know someone better, watch how he or she interacts with others. If you want to discover yourself, look at how you speak to yourself.
23. The feeling of unfinished work is actually worse than the feeling of finished work. The sense of incompletion can lead to feelings of anxiety and stress, which can in turn affect our ability to focus and be productive.
24. According to others, your attitude determines your altitude. Have you ever considered who creates that attitude? You, Yourself.
25. Your experience and the amount you make are also determined by your expertise. You determine where you rank in the pay scale by comparing yourself to similar people with comparable skills and experience. It’s entirely up to you whether or not you want to stay at that income level or climb higher in the company’s hierarchy.
26. A distraction will seem to appear every time you concentrate on something you desire, testing your dedication.  If you’re caught up in the chaos, it’s more than likely that you’ll lose sight of your objective.
27. It is better to experience fear that motivates you to take action than to be given ideas that hold you back from progressing.