Random Thoughts: Part 6

I’m so proud of myself when I look back at everything I’ve had to go through. I claim that I have only just begun, and there is still a long way to go.

I’m not implying that you shouldn’t have difficult times in life; instead, I believe that you won’t be burdened with a load to carry unless there is a desire inside or an opportunity to learn from it.

I feel fortunate, yet I still do. However, there was no moment when I had a heart-to-heart conversation about various issues and how to handle life.  The reality is that life does not come with a handbook. We must all go through it to learn how it functioned and why it worked

The truth is that expecting someone to provide you with a precise blueprint of life and how they have figured it out is a fallacy. Someone can’t assist you to the point where you don’t have to do anything yourself. It’s an easy method

The reality is that life is telling us – How would you figure out how to get out of this maze? You’re just meat in a suit if there’s no way.

Many of you will undoubtedly disagree with these standards and shortcuts. After all, they are the rules of someone who has learned everything independently. I can tell you that they have worked for me thus far.

1. Before you forgive others for breaking your trust, first forgive yourself for putting the trust in them– When forgiving others for breaking our trust, it is important to remember that we ourselves are not perfect. In fact, we are all fallible human beings who make mistakes and sometimes inadvertently break the trust of others. When this happens, it is critical that we not only forgive those who have wronged us, but also offer ourselves grace and mercy. We need to acknowledge that we made a mistake by putting our trust in someone who was perhaps not worthy of it, and take the time to reflect on why we did so. In doing so, we can start to rebuild our own trust in ourselves, knowing that even if others let us down, we can always turn back to ourselves for support. And by releasing any sense of self-blame or regret when forgiving others for breaking our trust, we open the door to true healing and restored relationships.
2. Curiosity is an essential ingredient in our life- It may be something as simple as wondering what you would do if you won the lottery, or it might be more deep-seated questions about why things are the way they are. We all know what it’s like to have a single matchbox that we don’t use; such a box can be quite useless and just collect dust on a shelf for months or years at time.
3. When the pressure increases, deep-held feelings will come to the surface. You’re not alone if you feel this way-We’ve all been there before. The pressure is mounting and we can feel it deep within us. All of a sudden, deep-held feelings that we thought were long gone come bubbling to the surface. We may feel embarrassed or even ashamed, but it’s important to remember that we’re not alone in feeling this way. Pressure is a part of life, and it’s only natural for emotions to come to the surface when we’re under stress. So if you’re feeling the pressure, take a deep breath and remind yourself that you’re not alone. You can handle this.
4. Examine the good habits of people .They don’t have to be perfect so that you may learn something from them. The worst scenario imaginable is a goldmine for learning– At first glance, it may seem that the people who have developed good habits always lead neat and orderly lives. But in reality, there are countless examples of individuals who may not have all the positive qualities that we typically associate with good habits. For example, perhaps we might look to those who struggle with a chronic bad habit, such as smoking or a severe addiction. In some ways, these individuals may be predisposed to developing their unhealthy behaviors, simply because of their inherent personality traits or genetic makeup. Or perhaps we could consider the example of someone who struggles to stay organized or someone who has difficulty maintaining focus on important tasks. What these individuals lack in terms of pure excellence is often balanced by other qualities that help them to be successful in other areas of life. Ultimately, though they may not always be excellent by traditional definitions, these individuals can provide us with valuable lessons and teach us how to better manage our own lives. After all, there is often no perfect way to achieve success – sometimes we just need to find what works for each of us individually. And at the end of the day, those little mistakes along the way can actually turn out to be goldmines for learning and growth.
5. You are the beneficiary of bad luck- We all have experienced bad luck at some point in our lives. Whether it’s a flat tire, a missed flight, or a lost wallet, bad luck can strike when we least expect it. But what if bad luck wasn’t always a bad thing? What if, instead of seeing it as a negative force, we started to see it as an opportunity? If we take a closer look at bad luck, we’ll see that it often leads to good things. For example, let’s say you miss your flight because your alarm didn’t go off. While this may seem like a terrible start to your vacation, it could actually end up being a blessing in disguise. Why? Because you might meet someone on the rescheduled flight who ends up becoming your best friend. Or you might get upgraded to first-class because of the inconvenience. Either way, you end up coming out ahead because of what initially seemed like bad luck. So the next time something unlucky happens to you, don’t despair. Instead, view it as an opportunity for good things to come your way. You never know what positive surprises might be in store for you down the road.
6. We learn when we teach. Teachers also learn from our lessons. Be a good teacher while you are a student also -As both a student and a teacher, I have experienced firsthand the unique dynamic of the teaching and learning relationship. In my experience, it is incredibly rewarding to see my own teachers learn from me just as much as I learn from them. I have always been impressed by how willing my teachers are to keep an open mind and embrace new ideas, even if those ideas challenge their own perspectives or beliefs. This willingness to be challenged and to change has made my instructors some of the most inspiring people I have ever met, and it reminds me every day why being an educator is such a rewarding career path. So if you’re looking for an amazing instructor who can be a true inspiration in your life, look no further than yourself- because with just the right attitudes and humility, we can all be wonderful teachers!
7. When you have the confidence, the rest of the world knows. It’s just you who understands when you’re scared. Even if you’re afraid, act courageously-Confidence is one of those things that everyone seems to talk about, but few people truly understand. To many, it is simply a feeling of being sure or assertive; strong and unyielding. And while there is some truth to this definition, confidence goes much deeper than that. At its core, confidence is about trusting yourself enough to take risks and face obstacles head-on. When you have the confidence, you know that nothing can get in your way, no matter how steep the climb or large the obstacle. And even when you’re scared or unsure, you still find the courage to move forward. But there’s another side to confidence as well: the knowledge that even though you might be afraid on the inside, it doesn’t show on the outside. So while others may misinterpret your self-assuredness as arrogance or cockiness, they will never know what’s truly going on inside of you–and only you can understand your own fears and hesitations. So even when your heart is pounding with uncertainty and your mind is flooded with doubts, just act courageously and pretend like nothing ever fazes you. In this way, having the confidence will make all of the difference in everything that you do.
8. Your responses will be as good as your questions-When it comes to getting the most out of life, one of the most important things is to never stop asking questions. Whether you’re exploring new ideas, learning about your surroundings, or simply trying to deepen your understanding of the world, good questions can help to unlock a wealth of knowledge and insight. So if you truly want to make the most of your time here on earth, it’s essential that you never stop asking questions. Your responses will be as good as your questions – so ask away! Whether you’re talking with friends, reading articles online, or doing some independent research, always keep an open mind and take the time for deep contemplation and critical thinking. The answers you seek may not always be easy to find, but by inquiring thoughtfully and honestly about the world around you, you can gain a deeper appreciation for all that life has to offer. After all, your responses will be as good as your questions. So go out there and start asking them today!
9. There are times when events in life serve as guidance, and there are others when they help you discover a world of possibilities that you never knew existed-For me, there have been times in my life when events have served as a sort of guiding light, showing me the path that I needed to take. Whether it was passing an important exam or getting accepted into my top choice college, these moments helped to remind me that I had the potential to succeed and reach my goals. However, there have also been times when events led me down a completely unexpected path, showing me that there is so much more in this world than I could ever imagine. These experiences opened my eyes and made me realize that anything is possible if I just put my mind to it. Through both guidance and discovery, life has taught me that no matter what challenges come our way, they can help us grow and become stronger than we ever thought possible.
10. If you’re receptive, the intuition will reach out and try to pull you in the direction of greater awareness. The term “gut reaction” refers to a murmur from the soul- At its core, intuition is all about listening to your inner voice and being receptive to the messages that it tries to communicate. To some degree, this voice is always there – a murmur from the soul, as it were – but if you’re not open to hearing those messages or trying to pay attention to them, then they will never manifest and reach out to pull you in the direction of greater awareness. We are often taught that intuition and gut feelings are unreliable, but if we can learn how to be more attuned and open, then we can discover the wealth of insights that lie just beneath the surface, waiting for us to tap into them. Whether it’s a delicate sense of knowing what is good for us or a more visceral reaction when something doesn’t sit right within our hearts and minds, an intuitive reach can guide us on our path in life. So be receptive – listen closely, trust your instincts, and let yourself be pulled towards a richer understanding of the world around you. With practice and patience, you will find yourself coming into greater alignment with your inner self, guided by your own unique intuition. And who knows where that may lead? You may just surprise yourself with what you discover along the way.
11. Hobbies and activities you truly like help us recover our health both physically and mentally-There is something inherently healing about pursuing our passions and delving into activities that we truly enjoy. Whether it’s rock climbing, hiking, or painting, engaging in hobbies and pastimes that we love has the power to boost our physical health, as well as increase mental wellbeing and happiness. This is because engaging in activities that bring us pleasure helps to release feel-good neurotransmitters like dopamine, which helps to lift our mood and combat stress, anxiety, and depression. What’s more, these enjoyable pursuits often come with a variety of health benefits, such as improved heart health from regular exercise or better sleep from meditation. Ultimately, finding hobbies and pastimes that we truly love allows us to recover not only our body but also our mind, allowing us to lead healthier and happier lives.
12. History is a barometer; you’ll find that everyone’s life has ups and downs. Nobody lives in a bubble free of suffering- I never really understood what people meant when they said that history repeats itself. But after going through some tough times in my own life, I think I get it now. Everyone goes through ups and downs, and it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one dealing with hard times. But when you look at history, you realize that everyone has suffered. There have always been wars, famines, and natural disasters. And there have always been people who have had to overcoming incredible odds. So when you’re feeling down, remember that you’re not alone. Everybody goes through tough times, and there’s always light at the end of the tunnel.
13. There are two things that can’t be disputed, whether you believe it or not. There is simply too much time and not nearly enough of it.-Everyone experiences time differently. For some, time seems to move slowly, while for others it seems to fly by. But regardless of our individual perception, there are two things that can’t be disputed: there is simply too much time, and not nearly enough of it. Most of us feel like we’re constantly chasing the clock, trying to cram more and more into each day. We fill our days with work, family obligations, and countless other responsibilities. And while we may complain about how busy we are, the truth is that most of us wouldn’t have it any other way. We’re addicted to the bustle of daily life, even though it often leads to us feeling stressed and overwhelmed. The next time you find yourself wishing there were more hours in the day, take a step back and consider what you would really do with all that extra time. Would you truly enjoy having an empty schedule? Or would you eventually fill up your days with just as many activities as before? It’s something to think about the next time you find yourself wishing for more time.
14. Study the world from different viewpoints. There is a lot more goodness in the world than there is evil; all we have to do is look for it-When I think about the world around me, it can sometimes seem like a dark, scary place. Everywhere I turn, there is conflict and strife; whether it’s war in the Middle East or Ukraine, acts of terror in Europe, or senseless violence on our own streets. But at the same time, I also see so many examples of goodness and kindness in this world. I see individuals giving their time to help those in need, groups working together to build communities and protect the environment, and scientists searching for new ways to better humanity. So while it may seem like all we see are problems and pain in this world, the reality is that there is infinitely more good than evil out there. All we have to do is look for it. And by untangling ourselves from narrow perspectives and choosing exploration over judgment, we will find that there are infinite paths to learning and growth – paths that lead us all towards a better future together. After all, study the world from different viewpoints because only then will we start to truly understand its beauty.
15. Always keep in mind that others would be delighted to have your terrible days if you say that this is the toughest time you’ve ever had-I try to remember this whenever I’m feeling down, that there are people in the world who would love to have my “terrible” day. I think about how I would feel if I were living in a war-torn country or if I didn’t know where my next meal was coming from. Would I still be complaining about the same things? It’s not that I’m grateful for my problems, but often put into perspective, they don’t seem so bad. And even on the really tough days, I try to remind myself that this too shall pass and that there’s always someone who has it worse than me. So instead of wallowing in self-pity, I try to find something positive to focus on. It might be a beautiful sunset, a funny meme, or just a kind word from a stranger. Maybe tomorrow won’t be any better, but by keeping this perspective in mind, at least today isn’t quite so bad.