Random Thoughts: Part 8
I’m so proud of myself when I look back at everything I’ve had to go through. I claim that I have only just begun, and there is still a long way to go.
I’m not implying that you shouldn’t have difficult times in life; instead, I believe that you won’t be burdened with a load to carry unless there is a desire inside or an opportunity to learn from it.
I feel fortunate, yet I still do. However, there was no moment when I had a heart-to-heart conversation about various issues and how to handle life. The reality is that life does not come with a handbook. We must all go through it to learn how it functioned and why it worked
The truth is that expecting someone to provide you with a precise blueprint of life and how they have figured it out is a fallacy. Someone can’t assist you to the point where you don’t have to do anything yourself. It’s an easy method
The reality is that life is telling us – How would you figure out how to get out of this maze? You’re just meat in a suit if there’s no way.
Many of you will undoubtedly disagree with these standards and shortcuts. After all, they are the rules of someone who has learned everything independently. I can tell you that they have worked for me thus far.
1.What does it take to be truly happy and successful? Knowing what sets you off can be the difference between having a good day and making it great- I’ve always believed that happiness and success go hand in hand. If you’re not happy with what you’re doing, you’re not likely to be successful. And conversely, if you’re not successful, it’s hard to be happy. So, what does it take to be truly happy and successful? For me, it starts with knowing myself. I need to know what sets me off and makes me tick. Once I know my triggers, I can avoid them or at least manage them in a way that doesn’t set me back. Second, I need to have a clear sense of purpose. What am I working towards? Why am I doing what I’m doing? When I have a clear purpose, it’s easier to stay motivated and focused on the task at hand. Finally, I need to surround myself with positive people. People who will support me and help me achieve my goals. These are the three things that I think are essential for happiness and success. How about you? What do you think it takes to be truly happy and successful?
2. You are relying on someone. What if he or she is depending on you?-I am a firm believer in the saying “if you want something done, do it yourself.” Over the years, I have found that this is often the best course of action, as it allows me to take control of the situation and ensure that things are done my way. However, there are also times when it is necessary to rely on others. For example, if I need help with a task that is outside of my area of expertise, I will ask for assistance from someone who knows more about the subject than I do. Similarly, if I am feeling overwhelmed or stressed, I will turn to my friends or family for support. While it can be difficult to let go of control and allow someone else to take the lead, I have found that it is sometimes necessary in order to get the job done.
3. On this planet, a tiny human soul as vulnerable as a newborn may trigger all of your most terrible fears, scars, and deficiencies- I’m not talking about some monster under the bed. I’m talking about the fragility of humanity and how a tiny baby can bring all your worst anger to the surface. It is in these moments that we must remember our own strength and resilience. We must remember that we are capable of so much more than we give ourselves credit for. We must remember that we are capable of protecting and caring for those who need us the most. In these moment, we must be the light for those who are lost in the darkness.
4. Even though you may have studied your religion and learned as much as you can, spiritual knowledge does not exempt you from the need to heal yourself- Even though you may have studied your religion and learned as much as you can, spiritual knowledge does not exempt you from the need to heal yourself. Everyone has wounds both physical and emotional, that need to be healed in order for us to be whole. Sometimes we are not even aware of these wounds until they are triggered and we find ourselves reacting in ways that are out of character. When this happens, it is important to take a step back and examine the wound. Where did it come from? What are you holding on to that is keeping the wound open? Once you have identified the wound, you can begin the process of healing. This may mean seeking therapy, doing some inner work, or reaching out to a trusted friend or family member. Whatever form it takes, healing is an essential part of our spiritual journey.
5. Before you have children, make sure you’ve given your inner child the attention and the love it deserves-You will never really understand the importance of taking care of my inner child until you became a parent yourself. It’s easy to get so caught up in the demands of everyday life that we forget to nurture our own needs. But if we don’t take care of ourselves, we won’t be able to take care of our children the way we want to. You see, we all have an inner child – that part of ourselves that is still hurt, or scared, or angry from our childhoods. And until we take the time to heal those wounds, we can’t fully give ourselves to someone else. So, before you have children, make sure you’ve given your inner child the attention and the love it deserves. Only then will you be able to give your children everything they need.
6. It’s not a viable excuse simply because it’s in the astrological chart. Carelessly irresponsible conduct is only an illustration of how you’re exploiting your birthday to avoid your own responsibilities and shift the blame for everything that goes wrong in your life on others- In recent years, astrology has become increasingly popular, with people using their birth charts to guide them in everything from relationship advice to career choices. However, some people have taken this a step too far, using astrology as an excuse for bad behavior. For example, if someone is unable to hold down a job, they may claim that it’s because “Mercury is in retrograde.” While it’s true that Mercury does go through periods of retrograde motion, this doesn’t mean that the planet is responsible for all of life’s mishaps. In reality, these individuals are simply looking for a way to avoid taking responsibility for their own actions. If something goes wrong in their life, they would rather blame it on the stars than admit that they made a mistake. Not only is this irresponsible, but it also shows a lack of maturity. After all, we are the masters of our own destiny—not the planets.
7. Changing the story you tell yourself over and over is essential to your ability to bounce back from a narrative of misfortunes- It is said that we are the sum of our stories. The narrative we tell ourselves – and others – about who we are and what has happened to us shapes our sense of self and our outlook on life. If we keep telling ourselves a story of victimhood, struggle and misfortune, it can be hard to break out of that mindset and see ourselves in a different light. However, it is essential to our ability to bounce back from adversity and create a new story for ourselves. By changing the way we think about our past experiences, we can open up new possibilities for the future. When we reframe our stories, we give ourselves the power to create our own destiny. So if you want to change your life for the better, start by changing the story you tell yourself.
8. Have a conversation about the change you made and the results after proposing someone to try it out. It’s no fun to be forced to alter a behavior, just like it isn’t pleasant for you.-I was recently discussing with a friend the changes I’d made in my life, and how happy I was with the results. I proposed that she try out some of the same things I had done, and she wasn’t too thrilled about the idea. It got me thinking about why it can be so hard to change our behavior, even when we know it would be good for us. Part of the problem is that change can be uncomfortable. We’re creatures of habit, and breaking out of our routines can be tough. Even when we’re not happy with our current situation, it can feel safer to stay the same. Then there’s the fear of failure – what if we try something new and it doesn’t work out? Or what if we can’t stick to the changes we’ve made? Of course, there are also plenty of reasons to embrace change. Sometimes it’s necessary to make a change in order to achieve our goals. And even if we’re not sure whether a change will work out, it can be worth taking the risk. After all, without change there would be no progress. In the end, it’s up to each of us to decide whether changing our behavior is worth the effort.
9. It’s more difficult to market ideas than it is to sell inspiration- I’ve always been a big believer in the power of ideas. I think they have the ability to change the world. But lately, I’ve been having some doubts. It seems like it’s getting harder and harder to get people to care about new ideas. There’s so much noise out there, and it’s tough to cut through all of the clutter. And even when you do get people to pay attention, it’s not always easy to get them to take action. It’s easier to sell people on inspiration than it is to market an idea. And that’s a problem. Because if we want to create real change, we need more than just inspiration. We need great ideas. We need new ways of thinking. We need to be able to market those ideas effectively if we want to make a difference.
10. Your mind is a propaganda machine. Take care not to misinterpret your thoughts- I am always careful about the thoughts that I entertain. Lately, I have been reading a lot about the power of the mind, and how our thoughts can influence our reality. It’s kind of like a self-fulfilling prophecy. If we believe something is true, then we are more likely to act in ways that make it true. This can work for good or for bad. For example, if I believe that I am competent and capable, then I am more likely to take risks and push myself to achieve my goals. On the other hand, if I believe that I am not good enough or that I will fail, then I am more likely to stay in my comfort zone and never reach my full potential. So, it is important to be aware of the thoughts that we allow into our minds, because they can have a big impact on our lives.
11. When you know yourself, you can handle life’s difficulties because when you understand your worth, priorities, and values, you may pick better things that improve your life-Many people give up on themselves when life gets tough but that’s usually because they never learned how to handle difficulties and they don’t know their own worth. People who know themselves can go through life with more grace because they understand what they’re fighting for. They know their priorities and they hold their values close to them. If you want to improve your life, get to know yourself first. It’s not going to be easy but it’ll be worth it in the end. Learn what you’re passionate about and what makes you happy. Once you know these things, it’ll be easier for you to make decisions that are in line with what you want. Don’t be afraid to put yourself first sometimes and make choices that are best for you. Your life is yours to live so make the most of it!
12. Some individuals encounter you in your life who will tell you, “You’re always like that,” while others meet you in your life and say, “Wow, I didn’t realize I was so wrong about you.-I used to think that the people who said, “I didn’t realize I was so wrong about you,” were the ones who really understood me. After all, they had seen me in a new light and been able to appreciate me for who I really was. However, I’ve since realized that the people who say, “You’re always like that,” are actually the ones who understand me better. They see me as a consistent person who is always true to myself. And while that might not always be the most flattering thing, it is ultimately more honest and meaningful. So, the next time someone says, “You’re always like that,” take it as a compliment. It just might be the best way to truly understand yourself.
13. You can blame factors or circumstances that hold you back from expressing your abilities. What if you’ve forgotten that you can’t do the seemingly unsurmountable goal, so it’s easier to lay the blame on others– There’s always an excuse ready at hand when we want to give up on something. It’s easy to blame our circumstances or the people around us when things don’t go the way we want them to. But sometimes, the only thing holding us back is our own fear of failure. We convince ourselves that we can’t do something because it’s too hard, or we’ll never be good enough. As a result, we miss out on opportunities to grow and learn. The next time you find yourself making excuses, ask yourself whether you really believe them. Chances are, if you stop listening to your inner critic, you’ll discover that you’re capable of much more than you ever thought possible.